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Rock Solid Relationships!: 11/15/09 - 11/22/09
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Sunday, November 15, 2009. Home or Hell for the Holidays? The unfortunate truth is that unless the people who wounded you received healing and unless you received healing the experience will not be any different this year. Whether the abuse is overt or underlying it will still be present on some level. This will cause unnecessary stress for you and you will walk away from yet another holiday asking the question, “why in the hell do I keep trying to make these relationships work? You may be able to accept...
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Rock Solid Relationships!: 3/1/09 - 3/8/09
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Sunday, March 1, 2009. No God, No Lasting Love! Know God, Know Lasting Love! We all know what love feels like. The emotion of love is intense and can be all consuming! From the love we feel for our family members to the love we feel towards our mate. Love takes on many forms throughout our lives and we use the word love in many settings and situations. I hear people say they love a certain kind of food, or they love a sports team, etc., and I’m sure they do, but is that really love? If we want to walk in...
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Rock Solid Relationships!: Dating Series - Part 6
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Saturday, November 14, 2009. Dating Series - Part 6. I am sure that all of you have gone to watch a movie at a theatre. You determine the movie you want to watch, buy your tickets, popcorn, and drink, and make your way into the theatre. You are filled with anticipation because you have been waiting for this movie to be released! Would you just sit there and watch the movie or would you get up and tell the management to change it? Would you be satisfied or discontent? 8221; “I’m out of here! Before I bega...
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Rock Solid Relationships!: Dating Series - Part 5
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Wednesday, July 29, 2009. Dating Series - Part 5. In the last blog I made this statement, “The first and foremost important quality to look for in a mate is someone who is willing to do the hard work to make the relationship successful! If they aren’t willing then they aren’t worth your time! 8221; I have had several emails and calls in regards to this comment so I am going to explain this before I move to the next topic. I told them to total up the hours and compare it to the hours it will take each day...
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Rock Solid Relationships!: Dating Series - Part Four - The Negotiable List
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Saturday, July 18, 2009. Dating Series - Part Four - The Negotiable List. Making the negotiable list is similar to making the non-negotiable list except these are not things. The greatest benefit of being single is you get to write your own story and you get to shop for a mate who adds adventure, mystery, fun, and joy, etc. to your life. This doesn’t have to be the case! It is the only way you will have a healthy self-esteem, be strong in your identity as a person, and know how to get your needs met in a...
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Rock Solid Relationships!: 12/6/09 - 12/13/09
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Friday, December 11, 2009. Dating Series - Part 7. I knew what I was looking for and I was anticipating finding him through the internet super highway of dating. I began to ask other men and women in my life about this and they confirmed what this man had told me. And believe me there is a difference which I will also explain in another blog. As I have said in past blogs take this time being single to become intimate with God and His desires for you and spend time deciding what you really want out of lif...
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Rock Solid Relationships!: Communication with Teens
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Sunday, December 20, 2009. Being a teenager is one of the most difficult times in life! 1 The body is going through physiological changes, and they don’t know how to react to them. 2 Their minds are shifting from a child mentality to an adult mentality, and they don’t know how to make the transition. 3 Their running as fast as they can to the finish line, called their 18th birthday, hoping that when they reach it, they will be listened to and taken seriously! The relationship starts to deteriorate and in...
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Rock Solid Relationships!: 12/20/09 - 12/27/09
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Sunday, December 20, 2009. Being a teenager is one of the most difficult times in life! 1 The body is going through physiological changes, and they don’t know how to react to them. 2 Their minds are shifting from a child mentality to an adult mentality, and they don’t know how to make the transition. 3 Their running as fast as they can to the finish line, called their 18th birthday, hoping that when they reach it, they will be listened to and taken seriously! The relationship starts to deteriorate and in...
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Rock Solid Relationships!: Dating Series - Part Three: How To Discover Non-Negotiable Core Values
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Thursday, July 16, 2009. Dating Series - Part Three: How To Discover Non-Negotiable Core Values. In making your non-negotiable list you need to determine what is important to you that you know if you compromise, you will end up frustrated and unhappy in a relationship. The non-negotiable list is comprised of your core values, those things that are most important to you! Let me explain further:. Example One: Never experienced it growing up and have a deep desire for it. If you discover you have unresolved...
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Rock Solid Relationships!: 3/22/09 - 3/29/09
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Monday, March 23, 2009. No God, No Understanding of Boundaries! Know God, Know Understanding of Boundaries! Here is something I want you to understand before we go any further. When God formed you in your mother’s womb, He loved every part of you. He loved the good, the bad, and the ugly! The rescue team consists of Jesus Christ, the Holy Spirit, the Bible, and the body of Christ. The rescue plan consists of God’s grace, mercy, truth, and deliverance. This understanding was liberating! He knew that one d...
